Too Nice for MLM???

I recently have been told I am "Too Nice for MLM" and that really got me thinking...Why is that a bad thing? I have always taken pride in being nice, always being my best self and being honest with everyone. Drama-free, as I like to think.

Then there's the motto to live by...

If you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all.

Right?!?

What happened to that mindset? I have made several hundred, maybe over a thousand contacts in MLM. The ones who are full of themselves and just send me a website DO NOT capture my interest. I enjoy relating to people. Finding their pains and seeing how I can help them.  Maybe they just need a shoulder to rest on, a boost of confidence, or someone to believe in them.

I have a husband, 2 small children, a home, a garden, 1 acre of property to care for, 2 online businesses, a blog, and I teach Ballroom Dance lessons on the side. I am busy, but I will always make time for the things that matter. I feel I AM hardcore, but I try to do it nicely, efficiently, and effectively. I always follow my gut. I believe it is best to give everyone the benefit of the doubt until you prove otherwise.

I have always felt like the odd-man-out and like people don't get me. And you know what? THAT'S OK!  Not everyone is worth my time. Not everyone is gonna see my perspective. But that's what makes me me. I am not lazy. I am not gullible. I am actually very smart and pay attention to EVERYTHING.

And that is why I'm a winner.

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